A small child doesnt know what economic
recession, unemployment, tobacco quota cuts or welfare reform
means or how they relate to a familys finances, or
lack thereof. A childs focus is on child-like things.
And, at this time of year, that means Christmas gifts, special
foods and candy, Santa Claus.
For parents in Lewis County, Ky., who are
experiencing economic hard times firsthand, this time of
year is filled with increased stress and frustration. How
to afford gifts for their children when they have a hard
time meeting their daily expenses?
The answer: Project Merry Christmas.
Thanks to this annual ecumenical effort,
needy families in one of Kentuckys poorest counties
have had merrier Christmases for the past 17 years. Project
Merry Christmas is sponsored by the local ministerial association,
of which Glenmarys Holy Redeemer mission is an active
member, and it is supported by countless volunteers and
donations.
Holy Redeemer in Vanceburg, known locally
as simply the Catholic church, has been involved
since year one in organizing Project Merry Christmas. Providence
Sister Joseph Fillenwarth, pastoral coordinator of this
Glenmary mission parish, has been one of the chief organizers
of the project for the past 10 years.
Project Merry Christmas makes it possible
for those in need to buy new Christmas gifts
for their children. Last year, over 350 families benefited
from the program with over 400 children receiving new clothes,
toys or books.
Its really quite amazing,
says Sister Joseph. Seeing the happiness on the faces
of those buying the gifts really makes the holiday
season for those involved.
The opportunity to choose gifts instead
of being given gifts to give is an empowering experience
for the shoppers, Sister Joseph says. It makes
the whole experience a little more personal.
Vanceburg is located 100 miles southeast
of Cincinnati in the foothills of the Appalachian Mountains.
Sister Joseph laughs as she points to her telephone which
has the entire parish membership on speed dial. Were
about 25 registered families, but really were one
big family, she says.
There is still some prejudice in the area
towards Catholics, Sister Joseph admits. But with the presence
of Holy Redeemer and the Glenmary Farm (the home of Glenmarys
volunteer program) as well as the Christian Community Center
and Peoples Self-Help Housing, locals are very aware
of the Catholic presence and where assistance is available.
The role of Catholics helping organize and
run Project Merry Christmas also gives more visibility to
the Catholic church.
Economic hard times have always been a part
of this Eastern Kentucky county. But the past couple of
years have been especially hard. The last of the factories
in the county closed in 2000. Government assistance programs
cut back that year, too, as did the quotas for tobacco farmers.
The closest work opportunities are now 20 miles north in
Maysville, but even there, the opportunities are few and
far between.
In Appalachian culture, connection to county,
place and family are very strong. That makes it difficult
for many to pick up the family and move in search of work.
But even if a family is willing to move, they often find
themselves in a Catch-22: To make money they need to move,
but they have no means of making money to move.
But for one day in the middle of December,
the frustration caused by financial and work worries is
replaced by the giving spirit of the season.
Organizing Project Merry Christmas
begins in November when solicitation for pledges and donations
to buy food vouchers begins. Local businesses and organizations
in the county are asked to donate cash toward the event
with the goal of raising at least $6,000. Catholic parishes
in the Diocese of Covington, Ky., and the Archdiocese of
Cincinnati, Ohio, which are annual partners for Project
Merry Christmas, also collect new toys, clothes and other
gifts at this time for Sister Joseph. And volunteers to
work the event are also confirmed by Sister Joseph before
the big push in December.
Donated items arrive in Vanceburg the first
of December. The day before Project Merry Christmas, those
items are sorted according to age, assigned a worth of 25,
50, 75 or 100 points and grouped in rooms in a vacant building
once used as a hotel in Vanceburg.
This is when the volunteers become indispensable,
according to Sister Joseph. While the ministers of the ministerial
association have registered the shoppers and handled the
paperwork involved, the actual set up and shopping are made
possible because of the volunteers.
On shopping day (usually the week before
Christmas), excited shoppers begin lining up, in the cold,
at 6 a.m. waiting for the doors of the hotel to open at
10 a.m. Each year, the shoppers are told they dont
have to get there early, that there will be enough gifts
to go around. But the excitement about Christmas shopping
always seem to be greater than their desire to stay warm
a little longer.
Shoppers are given 100 points per child to
spend any way they want, either in one lump sum or on several
things which add up to 100 points. In addition to shopping
points, shoppers are given a $25 food voucher as well as
school supplies, a stuffed toy, and a book for each child.
A volunteer accompanies each shopper through
the hotel turned shopping mall, keeping track of the points
spent. Last year, volunteers came from as far away as Massachusetts
and Minnesota and as close as the Glenmary Farm to help
out with Project Merry Christmas.
Barbara Stygles and Eugenie Coakley, members
of Women in Service to Appalachia, are annual volunteers
for Project Merry Christmas. They fly into Cincinnati from
Boston and then drive two hours to Vanceburg for two days
of work. You really feel like you make a difference
in this short time, Barbara said as she organized
the 2-and-under room. Its exhausting but wonderful.
For three hours, the line of shoppers files
nonstop through the hotel, filling boxes with gifts that
will be opened by excited childrenboard games, dolls,
CD players, clothes, a warm coat, socks and underwear. Trying
to decide what their children would like most and, more
importantly, need most is the challenge for the shoppers.
I dont know what we would do
without (Project Merry Christmas), said one shopper.
She and her husband have two small children. Times
are just really hard, and I dont know how I could
explain to my kids why Santa missed our house.
But the volunteers arent only needed
for Project Merry Christmas. They also help Sister Joseph
sort, bag and distribute personal items and gifts donated
by members of Holy Redeemer to the local nursing home the
day prior to Project Merry Christmas. The gifts are delivered
with a note that simply says, Merry Christmas from
the Catholic Church. Last year over 100 bags and gifts
were given out.
Volunteers distribute the gifts, help the
patients open them or just sit and visit. The gifts are
met with smiles and at times tears. They just love
the company and knowing that someone remembers them,
Eugenie Coakley says.
The mention of Glenmary in the
nursing home brings smiles. Although nursing home staff
and residents dont necessarily associate Glenmary
with the Catholic Church, they associate it with the
Catholic camp (that is, the Glenmary Farm). The hundreds
of Farm volunteers who come to Vanceburg are visible year-round
in the community, volunteering for a local home building
agency, visiting the nursing home as well as a day center
for the developmentally disabled.
I dont know what wed do
without them [Glenmary], said an employee at the nursing
home. They have been a real help and asset to the
community.
Its not always easy to meet the needs
of all those who come for spiritual or material assistance,
Sister Joseph says. But whether its through
Project Merry Christmas, helping someone escape an abusive
situation or helping someone meet their utility or food
bills, God provides for us.