Brother Vince Wilmes did not recognize the voice
on the phone, but he remembered Cliff when he said his name.
Fifteen years before Cliff played left field on Brother Vinces
Little League teamstatistically a losing season. Of
course, for Brother Vince every season tallied more losses
than wins. He chose the kids of less ability or awkward coordination
because he wanted to give everyone a chance to play.
Cliff-from-left-field called that day because,
in his late 20s, he found himself in trouble with the law.
A broken family life left him few allies. So, he contacted
the one person who always accepted him and asked for prayers.
Brother Vince, a senior Glenmarian with a shock
of silver hair, walks with a cane and writes his memoirs.
The names and details from the more than a half century of
relationships sometimes grow fuzzy in his memory, but a dominant
theme comes through: To help people find God, he stood in
relationship with the least glamorous and most challenged
along the way.
Brother Vince arrived at Glenmarys farmhouse
headquarters two weeks before his 25th birthday in December
1940. The societyconsisting at that time of Glenmarys
founder Father William Howard Bishop, Father Raphael Sourd
and three deaconswelcomed him as the first Glenmary
brother. For the next 60 years, Brother Vince befriended down-and-outers
and kids who played clumsy baseball in the missions of Georgia,
Virginia, Oklahoma and Kentucky.
"My contact with each person was a genuine
gift," he reflects. "I kept meeting people with
issues and needs that God wanted dealt with."
To encourage a fellow shackled by drink, Brother
Vince helped him weave grapevine baskets to earn some income.
Then, he toted the baskets around in his car selling over
a hundred of them at regional gatherings or to friends.
His room at Glenmary headquarters in Cincinnati
acts as museum and stockroom for paintings and craft items
of people young and old who squeeze through life with only
a couple bucks at a time. Each month every penny of his Glenmary
brothers allowance supports friends by purchases, loans
and outright gifts.
To raise additional funds Brother Vince scavenger
hunts natural materials from the woods to make crosses. More
than 60 of his crosses have found their way to Arkansas
mostly to trailers and dwellings of migrant workers with the
admonition to read John 12:32"And when I am lifted
up from the earth, I will draw everyone to myself." Part
artist, part poet, he reflects, "Peoples gifts
and talents are like things that fall from a tree and are
lost unless they contact the cross."
A number of his relationships from over the
years and over the miles finally contact the cross in prison.
Currently Brother Vince writes four friends in jail. He remembers
that three of them played Little League with him and wryly
adds, "Theyre in a different ball game now."
Eunice, whose family Brother Vince helped for
over three decades, contacted him from her jail cell. Pregnant
at 15 by a man twice her age, she married another fellow a
few years later. In the milieu of poverty, her marriage grew
desperate until one day Eunice shot her husband. Now she writes
Brother Vince as possibly the only man who ever treated her
with the respect God shows a daughter. Her letters end, "I
love you, Brother Vince."
Slowing down a bit and riding an electric cart
between the Glenmary residence and the office where he logs
five hours a day in the mail room, Brother Vince constantly
thinks about the relationships he has made over the years.
"I wonder why there are so many different paths,"
he muses, "why people arent on the path to heaven."
A magnet to boys searching for a healthy role
model, Brother Vince in years past opened the rectory and
engaged the kids in projects. Working with boys having little
or no religious training, he occasionally marched them to
church and taught them a prayer. Although his Little Leaguers
jumbled the Hail Mary to "pray for us Senators,"
something must have stuck. Maybe Cliff-from-left-field remembered
that experience and, in his trouble, tried to contact Godwhich
he did by calling his former coach.